Reddit aita american boyfriend This morning, my boyfriend was sleeping in when his dad came over. Never even mind the money aspect, I don't know a single (EDIT: American) person in my life who could afford to just call out of work for a month just to travel and still have a job when they came back. Who knows what could've happened. When I saw the title, I expected it to be cancer, some kind of degenerative disorder, or something requiring major surgery. You put your black boyfriend in the home of a racist and have a shocked Pikachu face that it went left. I've been chatting with this AI boyfriend bot and it's become more than I expected. My (20) boyfriend (26) has known about this since we first started dating. All discussions are expected to be from a post-"racism 101" and postcolonial point of view. OP made complex dishes from all over India that are not easily available in North America. 3K votes, 345 comments. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year. OP is legitimately detached from reality if she believes that that's something the average person can just do. I work long days and come home late and I was supposed to work overtime one night so I would be home even later. He told her it would be a while and she then asked if it was okay to borrow my car. I am a stay at home mom and he works full time (hours are normally 12 hours a day M-F and 6-8 hours on Saturday). rules: don't berate others and no pornography we have children here Posted by u/Educational_Team_377 - 16,030 votes and 2,549 comments AITA for rolling my eyes at my boyfriend's proposal because it took 25 years of me begging? Yesterday after dinner my (52F) boyfriend of 30 years (53M) proposed to me. He's almost 30 and works as a waiter. 5K votes, 567 comments. I'm beginning to think that there's something wrong with me- January 16, 2022. My boyfriend hasn’t spoken or kept in contact with Heather since middle school. Rule 2: Relationship May 9, 2024 · On the Seasoned Sessions podcast, we recently came across a tricky family situation on Reddit: AITA for telling my daughter she cannot introduce her African American boyfriend to her grandparents? I (f29) have been dating my boyfriend (m35) 'Ricky' for 5 months. ) For years, most of the US population has been duped into thinking wealth is equivalent to being a good, hardworking paragon of virtue. So I moved into his $5k/month luxury condo in the city this August. We met Jamie on a night out, and I would say that although he's Kate's bf I consider him a friend. He just walked towards me holding a box and said to open it. He called me “grandota” talking to me on the phone which means huge and of course I asked him what he meant, being offended at being called huge. 8K comments. Dad understands men deeply due to being a man. But dad, his wife and his sister would not know my sister had an allergy and would take her word for it. Reddit, AITA? Edit: When we have time to hangout outside of this “girls night”, he’s always invited. Unless you’re Native, everyone has an immigrant ancestor. ) Never met them prior to that. Josh looks pissed, and his parents are equally thrown off. Leslie does not have a working vehicle at the moment and is working two jobs so Emily took it upon herself to help Leslie out as much as she can. This is a sister sub to r/AmITheAsshole. But the problem is that he's not financially stable. My (25f) boyfriend (27m) and I are dating for 8 months. My bf texted me during work and told me to stop at my moms house because he left a surprise for me there and to get dressed up before i came home. We get along very well. This was also before my senior year of high-school. Nta at all good fucking job. In the beginning, things were great… But as time progressed, our… 3K votes, 291 comments. When you're at someone house. I know we’re supposed to be trying to educate but sometimes it just takes a lot out of ya. He put in a pizza while me, my 2 sons and daughter went out to the mall and H had forgot about it and left to go back to his apartment, when we got back home our kitchen was on fire and by the time the firetrucks got here the whole downstairs was on fire. but he said I was out of line to imply he was being cheap when all he was doing was to make We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. Try to be helpful without being mean - even to those not in the thread/on reddit. 😆 It sounds like you tried several times and it seems super odd to me that the only thing he'd say about it is that it 'looks dirty' - like that's not really specifically an indicator of the car's value or quality. I already had a job offer in our college state from the firm where I interned when he found out what schools he was accepted to. Your boyfriend's comparison to how he would handle a similar situation with your possessions is worth considering. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. I'm Chinese-American, grew up in a town filled with WASPs and have been dating my Dominican-American boyfriend for the past few years. Posted by u/Aggravating-Echo6026 - 9,545 votes and 1,824 comments My (20) boyfriend (26) has known about this since we first started dating. rules: don't berate others and no pornography we have children here my boyfriend is puerto rican, pale skinned, and has 3c hair. Your (better be fucking EX-)boyfriend was arrested because of what he did, not you. When we can go to events all together everyone is invited, other couples, boyfriends, husbands, etc. I get that totally. In the 3 years we’ve been dating I have only met his… this is a community like r/AmITheAsshole except unlike that subreddit here you can post interpersonal conflicts, anything that's AITA but is not allowed there even posting about Scar from the lion king and trying to convince redditors that he was not the AH. Some of them because “well God clearly blessed them with wealth so they must be great!” Some of them because of the American Dream propaganda that’s shoved down our throats from infancy. A year after that, he’s going to never see or speak to you again if you keep choosing your boyfriend and pretend step kids over your own son. stupid things like this happen to me, even though i try my best,. (Mom, dad and his 16yr old brother. It’s expected in many cases. Then he applied for full custody of me, won it default as she didn't show up, and they all let me live with my boyfriend's family. My boyfriend and I have been together for about two years. It’s not your problem, and it’s definitely not your boyfriend’s problem, yet you’ve put the responsibility of managing and working around your family’s racism on yourself and your boyfriend, and in doing so, you inadvertently prioritized the feelings and beliefs of your racist relatives over those of your boyfriend. 21K votes, 3. My thoughts exactly. No, you should tell your American bf to get on the first flight back to America so he can get a “decent meal and not starve”, and stay and enjoy your family and eat delicious home cooking. Edit: I have to thank everyone for the rewards! The first reward came in and it made me beam - it was my first reward on Reddit ever, and the first time I was upvoted more than about 50 times. From where I’m standing, it seems like he has an issue with just this one night. 7K comments. We were discussing finances and the topic of how I own my place came up. sometimes, i am just too tired, and mistakes happen despite my best efforts. He grabbed a big trash bag and started just grabbing handfuls and putting them inside. i would encourage her to go, and if i can afford it, i would reschedule the flight to join her. Throwaway obviously and fair warning on mobile maybe a couple (dozen) mistakes so please excuse in advance. Yeah that doesn’t make for a healthy relationship moving forward, you say he’s been good to you otherwise, which is fair, but TikTok is beginning to bleed into his other commitments, he wants to reach 100k before his birthday but he’s only going to want more after that and he’s going to have to put much more effort into it then. The only school he could get into was in a different state from where we went to college. Since your boyfriend seems to have no backbone for his family. My boyfriend has a best friend (18M) named Chris. Usually we work well together, I love him and he's been kind to me. Deplorable My college boyfriend went off to med school (I graduated a semester after him). Posted by u/Aggravating-Echo6026 - 9,545 votes and 1,824 comments We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. My boyfriend insists the cats sleep in the bed. A little background before I get into it. Nov 18, 2024 · I(24f) have been with my boyfriend(26m) for 5 years now, and I truly thought he was the one, but it seems I was wrong. Basically my sister says I should have gone along with her lie and not told her boyfriend the truth. NTA. People here aren’t notorious for their nuanced analysis of systemic bigotry. Good for the sister for speaking up. The other day I was spending the night at his house and thought it would be funny if I tied his hair around those metal bars on his bed frame. We go out once a week and each time he happens to forget his credit card to make a payment. Sure, billions of people in the world, but most people will only ever meet a couple thousand, and have meaningful relationships with even less than that. My sister had a meltdown screaming and berating me for how I treated her boyfriend. Meanwhile, I work in finance and earn a high salary. Apr 13, 2022 · Whether it's investigating the financials of Elon Musk's pro-Trump PAC or producing our latest documentary, 'The A Word', which shines a light on the American women fighting for reproductive On the other hand, my best friend's alcoholic boyfriend (though he says he's not good enough for her and that's why he won't call her his girlfriend) lives in her apartment, pays nothing but his own food, does nothing to maintain the place, contributes nothing besides occasional whiskey dick and barfing up Thursday happy hour every week. Major red flags from your boyfriend. “My fiancee is Korean-American and I’m American. I was able to pay the tax on mine by myself as it was cheaper due to being smaller, because my boyfriend (3 years) didn't contribute financially towards it I didn't think to put him on the title. My sisters husband has been added to the title of her house as he helped her pay the tax on it. My Boyfriend has been taking care of his siblings (16F, 12F, 11M) since his oldest sister was born. I pressed charges against her at the insistence of everyone and then after my dad got his time with me in the summer, he dropped me off at my boyfriend's house. My dog's a better communicator than your BF. TL;DR: After a conversation with an old ex boyfriend, my new ex boyfriend broke up with me. When we started dating I was putting makeup on every day and I fell… My boyfriend is from a South American country and he’s around my height, taller than me if he has shoes and I don’t but when we both have shoes around the same height. We have been dating for almost three years now and moved in together at the beginning of the pandemic so we could be in lock down together. When I told my boyfriend my honest opinion (I didn't wanna open my mouth but he pushed me) He said he couldn't believe this was my reaction bjt I pointed out that he has money to for an $200 necklace at least so I could wear it at the engagement party. rules: don't berate others and no pornography we have children here So reddit, AITA Relevant Comments: Commenter: She really didn't learn the lesson the class was taught, did she? A lesson she needs to understand if she is going to work in this job. Jun 20, 2022 · According to a post shared by the 26-year-old woman (under the username GermanCat34) on Reddit's Am I The A**hole (AITA) forum, where it had received 19,500 upvotes at the time of writing, her 27 AITA, but for relationship posts. Ultimately they will decide what values they want to embrace and pass on and I'm sure the grandparents will make anything progressive a nightmare but it would be unfair to blame Dan for his parents failures as human being and you can't expect society to become more tolerant by On Friday my boyfriend (25M) and I (23F) attended a mutual friend’s themed dinner party. Glad to know she's dropped a message dumping the AH. (This is where the AITA comes in) I get there and 28M is blowing up my phone. I’m American, and we usually stick to one place, I’ve lived in a semi-rural, semi-suburban town all my life, and I quite like it We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. AITA for cancelling the surprise marriage proposal at my house when my daughter's boyfriend told me to make sure my son didn't act "too gay" at the event? Not the A-hole My daughter “Jaelinn” and her boyfriend ”James” (both 25) have been dating for two years, and he's been living with my family for one. I have been with my boyfriend for a few months now and he's very lovely and has a great sense of humour. It can also be a lot harder to relate. Boyfriend has reddit but not completely sure if he is on this sub. we have been engaged for a year in December, he is currently legally married to someone else but due to finances, procrastination, and lack of knowing where she is located it has been a struggle to get divorced. We had a good time and the night went by without any problems. My boyfriend did tell her no, I heard the entire conversation. I don't think I'm being unreasonable to not want people screwing in my bed. I (24f) and my boyfriend “Owen” (25m) have been together for 3 years. Calling me hostle with anger issues to scare her boyfriend out of our parents house. Her boyfriend has met them as the three of them are my sister's only family besides me. NTA your boyfriend sounds like he has either control issues or trust issues or both. Well a few hours later my boyfriend and I got home and my car was gone. Chris recently started talking to and hanging out with a girl named Heather (18F). I lost ALL my friends once because my friend(at the time)confided in me about her 5 year old being molested by her boyfriends 11 year old little boy. 5k/month). I f32 have been dating my boyfriend m36 for 9 months. But unfortunately, your dad made the decision not to leave the restaurant to you. I (24F) and my boyfriend (25m) recently had a baby together. There were dishes of Tatar, Russian, Belarusian and Ukrainian cuisine, as well as several dishes of Turkish cuisine During dinner, my boyfriend looked annoyed. I am white and he’s Native American. I spent most of the time with my female friends and my bf was hanging out with his buddies. I ended up escalating the issue to the top levels of management, the entire board of directors of the hospital, and the investors in the hospital, before they dropped the bill. Reddit is a network of communities where people can dive into their interests, hobbies and passions. If you say anything that's slightly ignorant (ie: if you don't know literally everything about the world), then the people on Reddit assume that you're American (America = Stupid), and then make fun of you for being so. My sister told me to relax, and said I was being a prude American (her boyfriend is from Ireland). ASL is more American than English. My oldest son and boyfriend (H) had a bad relationship ever since H had accidentally burned down our house. We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. A week ago, we flew with him to my mother in Turkey, and she made national dishes. She brought this on herself. My (f21) boyfriend (m24) of almost a year, invited me to dinner with his family. ) 6oz of steak should be plenty to make you not explicitly hungry any more. But I was genuinely just having a good time and it was just a convenient place for us to go smoke. Might be a bit confusing but please bear with me. I'm 25, my boyfriend is 35, and we have been together for almost exactly three years. That grossed me out. My boyfriend (25M) and I (24F) have a weekly date night where we cook dinner and watch a movie or TV show. She may not consciously recognize the pattern in herself, but that’s what she’s trying to push onto OP whether she realizes it or not (I don’t think she’s an AH here, she’s just giving misguided advice). true. Also maybe be careful going on Reddit when trying to discuss racial stuff. Posted by u/Royal-Jacket-149 - 3 votes and 2 comments We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. Posted by u/Throwaway1728364 - 30,708 votes and 1,825 comments My boyfriend has been away for the last 2 months staying with his brother to take care of him, and just recently came home a few days ago. My wife, Emily, has a longtime friend, Leslie, who has recently become a single mother. My boyfriend unlike his family is not into politics at all and swore to me for 4 years he was a registered Independent. No personal attacks. Look at the language he uses too. Reddit, that time my boyfriend was away talking on the phone for “business” he was actually on the phone with Jen promising that I would give her my Hamilton tickets! I was so thrown off by this that I (kind of not very tactfully, I admit) say how I had no clue about this. Recently, my boyfriend has been going through a tough time dealing with his anxiety, and he's been using his favorite TV show as a way to cope. Aside from Native American languages, ASL is the only widely-used (in the US) language born in America. 6'+ whiter than casper the friendly ghost, blonde, blue/hazel eyes. Posted by u/life-eternal19 - 4,379 votes and 1,526 comments My boyfriend asked for help fighting his medical bill because I said I was good at doing that. ” He doesn’t distinguish his own ethnicity, he thinks he’s a “normal” American while his girlfriend isn’t. Rule 1: Don't be an asshole. What makes you an asshole isn't for taking 4 pieces of chicken, its for acting like a child with no guilt despite being an extra luggage. I (25F) have been dating my boyfriend (25M) for over a year. And they were. Background: I've been out of the service for just a tad over a decade I joined right out of HS and served in the army I have deployed twice served for a total of 5 years was medically retired due to injuries sustained in the line of duty. 2. Fake names. North American Indians would kill to be able to get authentic versions of that food at regular restaurants. A healthy relationship allows for partners to have space with their own friends, and there should be a mutual trust between the partners. Reason for throw away. I’ve heard him speak Spanish on the phone many times and inquired about this but he’s never asked me if I speak it and it just felt weird to mention it when he didn’t seem to care enough to ask if I spoke any other languages apart from German and English. Ten quid says this is some sublimated Proper Gender Role bullshit on her behalf, and that she can't stand the idea that she and her partner don't fulfil the modern American ideal of "Man stays out of the kitchen, woman cooks, lol he's so helpless". My boyfriend moved in with me unexpectedly three months ago as his landlord decided to move into the property with his family. Posted by u/weddingplabber - 11,897 votes and 2,194 comments These are all legitimate potential problems, it all comes down to how daughter and dan handle these situations. It does sound disappointing. All of a sudden my boyfriend recently started asking me to pay half the rent ($2. Please help me Reddit, I [F24] gotta get something off my chest about my boyfriend [M29] and now the AI boy I'm talking to. The ungrateful Ugly American, with a limited palette. We share an interest in a particular sport that we text about sometimes and if I have a spare hospitality ticket to one of the sporting fixtures, I People(american people, at least) are so used to absurd portions it's ridiculous. Get used to them, OP. I asked him to give me some context to this since I didn’t want to judge instantly. Tell her this is America and you will not have your ceremony in a European language. This year, we decided he would organise a 'surprise' for my birthday, I would organise a 'surprise' for his birthday, and then for our anniversary We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. He's divorced but hates this word and goes with the word "divorcee" instead since the first one makes it sound like he was "dumped" when it was him who initiated it. I was shocked and my boyfriend was We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. My (29F) friend Kate (28) has a boyfriend, Jamie (29), whom she has been with for nearly 3 years. When he was almsot done, I told my boyfriend what was going on and that it was for his own good. Everything was going normally until we reached a hallway. I got along really well with them, before dinner. The biggest issue we have is our disagreement on his family. His ex is another AITA post, but this one has to deal with sleep. My boyfriend is a very sweet guy in many ways, but one thing that I'm not so much a fan of is that he often hops on the bandwagon of hating on innocent things. He got mad and said we're stopping that right now. YTA. My boyfriend and one of his friends grabbed my back pockets and pulled them pretty hard and tore my jeans completely. Tell us about any non-vi But she tells me, sorry, my boyfriend and I were "using" the bed last night. AITAH (26F) for calling my boyfriend (28M) disgusting for knowing so much about his sisters periods. I am an American (25F), currently living in Paris. She told his kids that they'd be thrown away in the pound if we didn't take them, so I of course said they could stay here. Might be a bit confusing but please bare with me. My boyfriend (35m) and I (35f) were discussing finances as we wanted to be on the same page. In my family, all national dishes were always cooked and served on the table. NTA - my family is literally as American as they come, I can trace my ancestors to the American revolution — your boyfriend’s family is WEIRD. this is a community like r/AmITheAsshole except unlike that subreddit here you can post interpersonal conflicts, anything that's AITA but is not allowed there even posting about Scar from the lion king and trying to convince redditors that he was not the AH. My boyfriend, Heather and Chris all went to the same middle school and were all friends. No bigotry or hate speech. Edit: I’m so tired of explaining racism to white people. Communication is key here. UPDATE: AITA for telling my daughter she cannot introduce her African American boyfriend to her grandparents? r/AmItheAsshole A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Mom was almost certainly raised to make herself smaller to appease men. There are 100 posts on reddit about "what out of touch thing have you seen rich people do" or "poor people, what did you think only rich people had," or whatever So if he's worried that he won't be able to relate to conversations about vacations. It becomes very clear that me doing this is a triggering action based on my fuck up a few years ago. She said she told her boyfriend Blake the time got pushed back 30 minutes because she needed to talk to us alone. Jenn was mad at Blake for not getting her any birthday gifts and only took her out to dinner to a place they go to often. Jun 20, 2022 · According to a post shared by the 26-year-old woman (under the username GermanCat34) on Reddit's Am I The A**hole (AITA) forum, where it had received 19,500 upvotes at the time of writing, her 27 We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. it I originally wanted to live in a cheaper place in Queens or Brooklyn, but my boyfriend likes his current place and insisted I move in since he would be the one paying the rent. See our huge collection of Lifestyle Memes and Quotes, and share them with your friends and family. While working on his computer I coincidentally came across a self-made Amazon review about a „delicious American snack“ and a comment (from my boyfriend) saying: „love you“ with photos of her. May we all carry this energy throughout 2022! (Remember, folks: if your boyfriend bodyshames you, that means he's the weight you need to lose. Stop speaking to his family on the phone and/or in person – texts/e-mails only. In a funny coincidence, both of our birthdays and our anniversary (the day we met) all happen in the same week. He’s got long hair down his back. Part of loving someone, and being in a multi-cultural partnership, is viewing well-intentioned fumbles with a generosity of spirit and affection. the first time i ever brought up him using the n word earlier on into us dating i made it clear to him that i didn’t like him saying it, and that normally something like this would be a dealbreaker for me I (22F) have been with fiancé (24M) for 16 months we have a 3 month old son together, and I have a 20 month old day from a previous relationship. They were lovely and talkative. America is a melting pot of cultures. I (17f) and my friend/on & off boyfriend (18m) are both huge pranksters and we usually pull stupid pranks on one another. I told her he was overstepping and made my wife uncomfortable to the point of crying, She actually called me wife "such a princess" and said she is soft and can not take some OP, why should you worry what other guests think? Your boyfriend didn't when he started eating your food. My boyfriend grew up in a house that valued outdated gender norms. My last two partners have cheated on me. Obviously I'm joking but that's an absolutely absurd line of "logic" for her to try to pull on you. No insults. If you're not doing physical labor or work out a bunch(in which case you should be eating cheaper foods at home or protein shakes, etc. It's usually low complexity and and caters to the North American palate with a low level of spices (as in herbs and seasonings, not spiciness). It's good that you're planning to discuss the possibility of splitting the cost with your boyfriend. but i know im kinda hopeless sometimes at stuff like that. There's a community for whatever you're interested in on Reddit. If I were your boyfriend parents I won't accept you as my daughter in law. No but seriously, good for OP. He needs to leave you. The women were always responsible for cooking and cleaning, so he didn't learn how to do any of that for most of his life. My boyfriend is an American. If she'd done what the teacher taught — talk to the adult — then none of this would have happened. Proof that all of the social justice warriors on Reddit are actually the most racist/prejudice people around. My (28F) boyfriend (27M), Ryan, likes to help others. Update. when i first met him i initially thought he was just a lightskin black person. I'm afraid that the old ex boyfriend said something to him and I'm worried he'll do it again in the future. I could understand the feelings of not wanting to continue there, especially since it seems you’ve been spending your entire life preparing to continue the family business, and when it’s not left to you, you feel devalued. My boyfriend asked me and I told him I was not comfortable with that and to tell her no. i would blame myself. Finding a solution that feels fair to both of you is essential for maintaining a healthy relationship. Maybe this is a little dumb, but I'm not American and most people posting on reddit are, and because almost everyone on aita seems to react to the smallest situation by yelling or screaming I kind of just assumed that that's how people in the US react to things. AITA? Okay, so I've go a situation I'm super conflicted about. You’re going to have to recoup this money somehow, and your loss is likely too large for a small claims court (limits vary by jurisdiction, common reference point is $10k). Anemia is generally a completely treatable condition that has no impact on quality of life, and unless the doctor referenced a concern about a more serious condition, it's reasonable to assume that supplements are all that is needed at this point. . The best Lifestyle Memes and Ecards. Posted by u/No-Camel-642 - 3,634 votes and 1,273 comments We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. Shame on you reddit, shame, for giving advice based on the available information and not the stuff I left out!!" The cynic in me at this point is just wondering if the original post was a bait post, just so OP can then post the 180 turnaround for "evil reddit always over reacts with dump him". Dave is Mexican-American but he’s currently working in Berlin where I am from. And a bad house guest. Our relationship with dad is better since mum passed. When my boyfriend realized I wasn't wearing panties he started yelling at me and then proceeded to give me his sweater. That he wanted me to help him grow up. Life isn’t as black and white as some people think it is. The only thing I knew about them is that they’re conservative and christians but lovely people. Keep in mind people are here to arbitrate a relationship they care about. This. It's just for fun, I spend like 30 minutes a week on it, tops. He always told me my food habits were cute. He is the type of guy who would give a coworker money for their rent… My American friends always always have cash on them and expect to pay for pretty much everything in cash; meanwhile I, a Canadian, haven't carried cash (aside from specific, known-ahead-of-time instances like Girl Guide cookies or something) in over a decade. (And I say this, as an American, and an occasional houseguest). It’s totally a normal thing to bring a small token gift like you’ve described if you’re invited somewhere. My college boyfriend went off to med school (I graduated a semester after him). I post my food pics from when I go out to eat on Instagram. I think deep down I knew he was lying but actually finding out his political party (apparently he registered to vote for the marijuana legalization) via his mom shook me up. i would be really disappointed if i was the bf and it happened to me. He has two little children who love going out to eat. Oldest sister is 75% Native American, Older sister is 50% Korean (they both look it too), then there's me and my younger brother We look like poster boys for the Arian myth. That is, until he moved in with me after college. 13K votes, 6. Reddit's anti-racism community, a safe(r) space for People of Color and their supporters, pre-screens most content for safety. First problem has to deal with two cats that were thrown at us by force, compliments of his ex-wife. I feel for your boyfriend, he deserves somebody who cares about his safety and well-being. hjc aqcx shs ublcifg ucocw uypnv ywrdt gnfuxk fdhn gxf